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The Introvert Gap

The tap flowed messily into the watering can which sploshed over like a waterfall after a flood, while a melange of obscenely coloured plastic toys littered the lawn in a Hansel and Gretel style trail from the tap right to their toes, where they stood; two small, muddy and sodden little boys, with the sheepish grins of children who knew they had been busted.

It was my own fault; a lesson that I should have learned by now – 5 years into my journey through parenthood. I had noticed the quiet and I ignored the sensible voice in my head willing me to go and check on them, choosing to make a quick cuppa and enjoy the moment of calm. As the saying goes, it was the “calm before the storm”.

As an introvert I find moments of quiet to be a necessary part of sanity preservation during the day. I savour any moment of quiet that I can gather, sipping a cup of (lukewarm) coffee in peace and taking time to still my busy mind. As the real-life example above shows, I am also all too aware of the dangers of quiet. On my own quiet can mean recalibration for my busy mind, but with my boys a moment of quiet is likely to mean the above story has happened- someone has “made puddles” and made an absolute mess of the garden. My point in these anecdotes? Quiet holds power and quietness certainly doesn’t mean nothing significant is taking place!

When it comes to evangelism, “quiet” is not one of the qualities we first think of. and I think we do ourselves and God a disservice by overlooking the power of quiet evangelism. Of course we need the confident speakers who can talk to the masses about the God we love, but if we are not gifted in this way that doesn’t mean we are off the evangelism-hook. As the part of body of Christ, it is important to recognise the need for all the parts, not just the mouth. There are ways to share Christ quietly, confidently, and helpfully that we need to pursue. There are, after all many introverts who might recoil from an uber-confident extrovert evangelist; but might better hear the gospel when shared.. quietly.

God is relational and He broke the mould by sending a saviour to whom we can relate. Instead of being a distant God, we have a hands-on saviour who walks with his people through gritty daily life. We see this all throughout Jesus life, and is a pattern which can help us to be evangelists in our daily lives too. Sharing life with people and loving them well is a powerful tool that God can, and does, use for his glory. The key is to love well; and love is a call to action.

I have a mug that has Christian affirmations on the inside, more appearing as the coffee goes down. It reminds me that I am a child of God, created with intention. I try to always remind myself that if this is true for me then it is true for others too, and to try and live in accordance with that. Whether it’s chatting to another parent on their own at the school gates, working hard to show the boss and colleagues that we value our work, being honest with our Christian friends when life isn’t easy and going deeper than comfortable but surface-level friendships, we should aim to show others their God-given value and to build community where we are. It’ll look different for everyone, but the opportunity will be there somewhere if we intentionally pray and search. Once we are in community with people we can show them the unrelenting love that Jesus poured out on us. Desmond Tutu said that “the good news to a hungry person is bread”, and while that’s an overstatement in itself, I think that’s a great lesson in how to start to do quiet evangelism in real life. If we are in community with people, doing life with them, we learn to see where their needs are and then we can show them how Jesus cares about them where they are.

When a close friend lost her baby in a miscarriage she didn’t want to hear a sermon. She wanted someone to look after her elder son while she went into hospital, and for someone to hug and cry with her afterwards, lamenting alongside her. This friend, who once described herself as a “loud atheist”, saw that she was cared for and her baby was valued, and this has opened up many hope-filled conversations.

Remembering our own humanity with all its limitations keeps our eyes focused on God, who has no limitations. We can befriend people who are of different (or no) faith, who think and live differently, and we don’t need to be scared of doing so because we are confident that our God is bigger than any situation or conversation. Talking to people who are Muslim, or gay, or from a different culture, for example, can seem really scary. If we stop treating them like a project, and more like community then it stops being so scary. Remembering our humanity means remembering theirs too.

As a parent, I hear approximately 20947758303 questions per day and if I’m totally honest there are days where I can’t muster any more than a half-hearted “just because” in response. I sometimes forget that questions are great, they encourage us to expand our minds and open doors to amazing conversations. Our God is not afraid of questions, whether they are from us as Christians or from the confident Muslim person who we think is trying to conversationally trip us up. God has already accounted for us not knowing all the answers! Through the Bible, as well as community of other Christians, God has equipped us to learn. If we can’t answer a question we can safely admit to that, then go and pray about it, speak to Christians who we think might have better understanding than us on that question and ask them to point us to where the Bible talks about it. We need Christian community to keep us from being swayed from the truth in an effort to make conversations more comfortable. Sometimes that means we have insight to share and often means we have to learn from others. Love in action means being honest, and sometimes that feels incredibly vulnerable so having Christians to pray with and for us is so powerful and vital if we actually want to be helpful to the people we are telling about Jesus.

In my garden, the quiet meant my children were busy using their imaginations and all the tools at their disposal (all. the. tools.) to create something that was, in their opinion, beautiful and brilliant. If we use the quiet to build community and love well- using the tools we have been given, the evangelism that happens there will really be beautiful and brilliant.

Why Our Desires Point To God

Have you ever wondered why it is that almost universally, across time and cultures, human beings have innate desires for things like meaning, significance, purpose, and spirituality? In this SHORT ANSWERS video, Andy Bannister helps show how our deepest desires are a very big clue indeed to our being not random collections of molecules, but creatures created by a God in whom those desires can be truly met.

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Frontlines / Christians at Work : The Science Teacher

In this edition of Frontlines, Dr Stephen Jones spoke to Gavin Matthews for Solas about his work teaching Chemistry in a Perth Secondary school – and the way his Christian faith affects his work. He also talks about how he tries to be a helpful, wise, Christian witness in his school community.

Solas: Welcome Stephen, – tell us your job title, and  what your roles and responsibilities are.

SJ: Hi! I’m a chemistry teacher delivering Scottish ‘National 5’ and ‘Higher’ Chemistry to fourth and fifth years, and the general science curriculum to first, second and third years, as well as some maths too. I am also dipping my toe into some guidance teaching, and do that for one period a week.

Additionally, I’m involved in other aspects of school life such as inter-house activities and some of the charity fundraising. The school has long been involved with the Teenage Cancer Trust, who I used to work for (and there have sadly been a few young people in our school diagnosed with cancer); so they were very happy for me to keep that going.

Solas: So, of all those things, what do you enjoy most? What gives you job satisfaction?

SJ: I like working with young people, whether it’s teaching them Higher Chemistry, showing first-years how to use microscopes, helping with the Scripture Union group in the school, or the charity-fundraising. A lot of teaching is planning and admin, and I only endure that so that I can do the face-to-face work! We’ve discussed this very question in the staffroom and most teachers like standing in front of a class and communicating. I was in school today and taught seven periods of Chemistry – but I love it, and I know what I’m talking about. For me the challenge is to make the learning experience enjoyable for the pupils, because we all learn more when it’s fun.

Solas: Teaching is challenging, difficult job at times; one that can be quite intense with pressures to perform. Tell us about some of the challenges you face, and also how your Christian faith helps you to navigate those?

SJ: I think one of the first challenges for a teacher is that perfectionism is actually unattainable all the time. I could literally spend all my time perfecting lessons and presentations and have no space for my family, fitness, or mental health.  I have been steadily generating my own teaching materials which are as I would want them to be – but last week I taught a class using someone else’s materials. The science was sound but the slides weren’t exactly as I would want them (one image still had a copyright notice across it!!) but I have to keep a balance. I see hundreds of students a week at school – but I also have three kids of my own at home who deserve my time. So, I’m continually learning and improving – and entering teaching a little later in life than most probably helped with that. My faith and family helped me to maintain a sustainable balance too.

It also really helps as a Christian to know who you are in God. Because when you are a teacher you get insults hurled at you and if you don’t have security in your identity some of those can stick. But because I know that I am a child of God, made in the image of God, and loved by God and have a sense of security I have in who I am – folks can say what they want, but I know who I am. That sense of knowing who I am is actually how I maintain my authority in the classroom, and my faith really helps with that.

Solas: So how does your Christian faith affect the way you approach your work?

SJ: I like pretty much like all of my pupils, even the ones who people find difficult to like. But I had one pupil who was being a complete nightmare – making alarm sounds and shouting crudely offensive things at me in the school. I remember praying about how I would respond to this abuse. This young person needed boundaries – but also needed someone to view them with compassion and see how broken they are. I prayed about how to respond, and a Christian song came into my head, “Reckless Love” which is about Jesus’ relentless compassion for the lost. It reminded me that God values that young person – which affects how I must treat them. So, when young people’s behaviour is “challenging”; knowing that we serve a God of second chances, who looks on young people and loves them as His own creation, frames how I behave as a teacher. And love means compassion and forgiveness and boundaries and consequences too. I want my classroom to be a place of multiple second-chances, where I am an approachable teacher while at the same time there are rules, not chaos.

Solas: So presumably folks at work know that you are a Christian. What kind of responses has that produced?

SJ: Well sometimes from both pupils and staff there is a bit of confusion that a “science teacher” is a Christian! The assumed position in our culture is that science and Christianity don’t go together. And it’s not my position as a teacher to force my beliefs on anybody, but when we talk about how finely tuned our universe is for the emergence of life I can explore what the alternatives are and present the different views to the young people with no bias. I might say, “I believe this – but whatever you believe, isn’t the universe incredible!”

The other thing is I have never met a Christian as boring as the stereotype that we are all supposed to be! That and ridiculously judgemental… And I hope that I counter that stereotype. I hope that the staff that I know well don’t see me as that stereotype-Christian. Jesus said that he came to give us life in ‘all its fullness’. And I believe that I will get the most from life if I live it according to the maker’s instructions. In fact, the things in my life that have gone most wrong have tended to come from when I haven’t done that. My faith gives me a sense of purpose, and I want to model this ‘life to the full’ to everyone I work with; that I love God, I love my life, I love my faith and my family and what I do. I think the more teachers we have who love what they do, they better it is for the kids! As a chemistry teacher I get to blow stuff up and set things on fire on a regular basis, while marvelling at what’s happening at a molecular level, whilst looking like a magician – but that’s just the perks of the job!

Solas: So has all that ever led to opportunities to talk about your faith with people who you’ve met through work? Is talking about your faith something you deliberately set out to do, or does it come up spontaneously?

SJ: When I was a student I used to answer the question, “What did you do at the weekend?” with all the things I’d done on Saturday with the express purpose of dodging talking about church! But I remember feeling convicted about that and thinking, ‘my faith should be headline news!’ so I don’t hide my faith anymore. But honestly, what I know of Christ is so exciting that I do want to tell people about it and what’s happening in our church. So this week, my daughter and I went into Tesco’s and bought 198 chocolate Easter Eggs, that our church are delivering to young people in our community. It caused a bit of a stir in the shop when we had the pallet of eggs brought out too. So when someone at work says “were you doing anything exciting at the weekend?” I’ve got this great story of clearing out Tesco’s of Easter Eggs – then immediately their next question is, “Why would your church do that?” so I can talk about Easter being a time of hope, and the little booklet we give out with the eggs, about finding real hope. So even just by telling that story I have a chance to share a little of the hope I have in Jesus in a fun, friendly and hope-filled way.

Sometimes I’m, aware of colleagues who are struggling. It’s not always appropriate to offer to directly pray for people in school – but there have been times when colleagues are aware that I pray for them and they are appreciative. There is a small group of Christian teachers who meet to pray on a Wednesday lunchtime and we’re really open about saying ‘how are you? – we were praying for you on Wednesday’. Sometimes this leads to deeper conversations, deeper friendships and lets everyone know that I’m open to these conversations if people want to chat.

Solas: And what have reactions to you sharing your faith been like?

SJ: Maybe people talk about me behind my back! But in school most people are deliberately polite and avoid conflict. I think we have enough battles in the classroom, we don’t need any more in the staffroom! So the most common response is a respectful acknowledgement that those are my beliefs – but not theirs. I don’t ever force my beliefs on anybody – but neither would I want to shy away from sharing what I believe when the subject comes up.

I care about my colleagues enough that I want them to know that I am there for them, and that they have the same opportunity to access faith that I do and that I’d be happy to talk to them about it. Genuine relationships are so important. The deeper your relationship with someone, the more they have reason to trust what you say and the more opportunities they give you to share it. So in school I try to live as a Christian in a completely unashamed way – warts and all – and everyone can see who I am and what I stand for.

Solas: What’s your motivation for wanting to share Jesus with others?

SJ: I love being a Christian – that’s how I live life to the full according to God’s instructions. Logically it makes sense, even though there are things in the Bible that trip me up… as a young scientist I read the Old Testament alongside Richard Dawkins’ “The God Delusion” which threw up lots of issues. And there are debates to be had around a whole range of secondary issues but my foundation is in Christ. And the more I have explored my faith, the more I find belief in a creator God a logical position. I’m not sure that life would have any purpose without God. So I want to share my faith because of that sense of meaning and purpose which shapes my sense of wellbeing as a human – knowing that God has a purpose for me, and who will hold on to me as we navigate His plan. God says, ‘never will I leave you or forsake you’, so I can hold on to God and He guides me through life’s struggles and uncertainties. I can’t imagine living life without being able to turn to God in prayer… and so my experience of faith has been so good that I want other people to have access to that too, and to experience God as a friend and as a saviour.

Solas: What advice would you give a young Christian going into teaching who wants to be faithful to Christ there?

SJ: I think that you need to be wise about how you represent your faith in public education. My pastor in Glasgow used to say, “keep the main thing, the main thing” and the main thing is Jesus. He’s who I want to talk about, his love, his death and resurrection; and his forgiveness. I don’t want to get side tracked into all kinds of other disputes and debates that are less important. The other thing is learning to pick the right battles. There may be things in the school that I disagree with sometimes – but I am not in senior leadership so it’s not my position to go around challenging everything that happens, it’s literally above my pay grade, for a reason! But also when I do need to take an issue on, I haven’t burnt all my bridges with people whose help I need. I have a great relationship with the senior management in my school, and they allow me to do things like a huge school fundraising run for the Teenage Cancer Trust; which a local church sponsored. They let me host the SU group meet in my classroom, and they have allowed me to advertise the SU Ski and Snowboard Holiday I organise at the school assemblies. It was clearly a Christian event, and advertised as such, but still some kids with no church connection signed up. I feel that I was only able to do that because I have good relationships with staff, act wisely and choose my battles.

Solas: Thanks Stephen – that’s insightful!

The Importance of Pre-evangelism: recent work in Kent

Courses like Alpha and Christianity Explored have introduced countless people to the Christian faith. Increasingly we are being asked to lead events which come ‘before’ these courses in people’s journey towards faith in Christ. In these, we open up the big questions of life, explore why secular alternatives are disappointing – and invite people to explore further. St Giles and St George’s Church in Ashstead have been successful in running pre-evangelism events like this. In the video clip, Andy Bannister describes what we did with them, and what we could offer your church too.

PEP Talk Podcast With Mike Licona

Today we are joined by historian and academic Mike Licona to discuss his specialist topic, the resurrection of Christ. Although we’d expect our secular society to dismiss such a miracle, Mike shows us that the supernatural is a real part of more people’s lives that we might expect. 

With Mike Licona PEP Talk

Our Guest

Michael R. Licona, Ph.D. is associate professor of theology at Houston Baptist University and president of Risen Jesus, Inc. He is the author of several books, including The Resurrection of Jesus: A New Historiographical Approach (IVP Academic) and Why Are There Differences in the Gospels? What We Can Learn From Ancient Biography (Oxford University Press). Visit Mike’s web site and YouTube channel.

About PEP Talk

The Persuasive Evangelism Podcast aims to equip listeners to share their faith more effectively in a sceptical world. Each episode, Andy Bannister (Solas) and Kristi Mair (Oak Hill College) chat to a guest who has a great story, a useful resource, or some other expertise that helps equip you to talk persuasively, winsomely, and engagingly with your friends, colleagues and neighbours about Jesus.

The Professional Gap

“Think of the money we’ll save if we don’t employ a professional and I just do it myself.” Words I once naïvely offered to my wife to justify cutting down a large tree in our back garden. We had been renting the property for over a year and I had grown weary of the way several neglected Conifers had been allowed to eclipse any meaningful sunlight entering the back garden. So, in a rush of blood to the head and meagrely armed with little more than a semi-blunt handsaw and dodgy ladder, I decided to remove one particular problematic tree at the edge of the garden. After a couple of hours of hard labour, I managed to remove all the branches with my saw and some extendable loppers. All that remained was to fell the lingering trunk of this twenty-five foot evergreen. Unfortunately, the height of my ladder only permitted me to cut into the truck at a maximum height of twelve feet. Not letting this deter me (though it really should have!), I pressed on with sawing into the trunk. As I approached the halfway stage, the destabilising truck began to sway. Suddenly it dawned on me just how heavy thirteen feet of think Conifer trunk actually is and I had no skill or experience whatsoever in ensuring that the trunk fell exactly where I wanted it to. As a cold sweat dripped down my back, I accepted the inconvenient truth that the felling was at the point of no return. It was too dangerous to leave the trunk in its current condition: conifer must fall. Just then, a slightly anxious neighbour appeared offering to move the car they had parked on the street on the opposite side of my garden fence. Feebly attempting to assure them that I would make the trunk fall into our garden and not out towards the road, they moved the vehicle anyway. A few minutes of nervous sawing later the trunk fell… smashing right through one of my fence panels and out on the street, landing in the exact spot where my neighbours’ car had been parked just moments earlier! It was like something out of a Laurel and Hardy skit. And – I kid you not – as if to rub salt into the wounds of my stupidity, ten minutes later a private tree services company who had been working in a local property, drove along the street, noticed the horticultural disaster I had created, and offered to tidy everything up and remove all clippings for £50. Armed with proper equipment and expertise, it took the professionals a mere fifteen minutes to fix a catastrophe I had spent hours creating. Explaining the broken fence panel to my landlord, however, wasn’t so easy!

There are many responsibilities in life that really are best left to the professionals. For example, electrically rewiring a house, road vehicle servicing, or Root Canal surgery. The reasons we are wise to delegate such roles to professionals is because, on the one hand, performing these jobs well requires years of specialised training and expertise, and, on the other hand, not performing these jobs well can lead to all kinds of future problems, perhaps even future tragedies. Yet, if we are not careful, the same mindset can subtly creep into our personal confidence and sense of responsibility when it comes to Christian evangelism. As convinced as we may be about the importance of the good news of Christianity being shared with others, we might find ourselves thinking: “This is not really something for me. Sharing my faith persuasively in today’s culture is best left to the professionals. After all, they are ones who can do it most effectively. And if I was to try to do this myself, I might make such hash of it that I create more – rather than less – obstacles for someone taking Christianity seriously!”

In my experience, this professional gap or obstacle to our engagement with evangelism stems from at least three influences: First, is the reality we all acknowledge that sharing our faith is never an easy, and almost always an intimidating thing to do, especially if significant friendships or professional relationships are on the line. Sharing our faith effectively requires important skills in areas such as the art of conversation, in avoiding rhetoric that makes sense only to people within the Church, and in finding the right balance between contributing your thoughts and inviting the thoughts of another by asking good open-questions. Most of us have all seen bad expressions of evangelism, so we know how we wouldn’t want to do it. Yet, we have also encountered exceptionally gifted individuals, for whom communicating the claims of Christianity persuasively and answering difficult sceptical questions appears as natural as breathing. Given the obvious disparity between the gifting of these evangelistic Jedi and a realistic acknowledgement of our personal limitations and inexperience in sharing our faith, it can seem like a no-brainer to point sceptics and seekers towards these “professionals”, rather than expect them to indulge a novice like ourselves.

The second factor influencing the potential delegation of evangelism to “the professionals” is the broader culture within many churches of subcontracting many elements of ministry responsibility to those employed to serve within these arenas. A prime example of this is in the context of youth ministry, where – as a former full-time youth and student worker myself – I often saw parents abdicate almost all responsibility for the spiritual wellbeing of their children to the youth pastor. After all, that’s what they are being paid for, right? Wrong. Yet the same mentality and expectation can creep in when it comes to evangelism. Because many of our historic approaches to evangelism involved getting unbelievers into an evangelistic meeting and “under the sound of the Gospel” – by which we meant exposing them to someone preaching from a pulpit and which would only ever be done by either the pastor or a guest speaker – actually opening one’s mouth and communicating the Christian faith to people became the responsibility of some gifted other; the major evangelistic responsibility most Christians bore was simply to get non-Christian friends and colleagues into a building so that they could experience the professional at work in their evangelism.

Finally, a third factor that I believe is influencing the Professional Gap in evangelism is the way in which much of Christian apologetics is often being unhelpfully modelled today. As UK society increasingly secularises and the vast majority of citizens now grow up biblically illiterate, many Christians now rightly recognise that effective evangelism requires more than simply confronting people with Gospel preaching à la Billy Graham. Most unbelievers have been so thoroughly baptised in secular ideologies and values that they struggle to easily comprehend the rationality of Christian claims and harbour a plethora of questions and misconceptions that they need addressed before they can ever entertain becoming a Christian. In response to these significant evangelistic challenges, many churches or  groups have turned to Christian apologetics, often expressed through the largely academic model of inviting a highly-educated Christian “expert” – either on their own or in debate with an equally intellectual sceptical opponent – to address some “big question” that demonstrates the credibility of Christianity and then be cross-examined on their ideas in a live Q&A session. I can remember such an occasion several years ago in my own church when a world-leading Christian apologist addressed the question of God and natural disasters. Unsurprisingly, this individual tackled the subject and ensuing questions with spectacular expertise and intellect. Yet, in my conversations with attendees following the event, it became clear that this high-level approach actually only served to reinforce, if not entrench, the professional gap in evangelism. Most of those who were there that night left reassured that at least some Christians out there had good answers to these intimidating challenges to faith. Yet when it came to any consideration of them personally engaging with these types of questions among non-Christian friends, the model of apologetics/evangelism that they experienced that evening only served to both convince them that apologetics was for highly intellectual Christians and, therefore, they simply didn’t have the capability (or even the genetics!) to do apologetics/evangelism if this was what doing it well looked like. The success of that evening actually became its failure, especially when this model of evangelism wasn’t supplemented with more plausible expressions and models of evangelism that normal people could have confidence they could get on board with.

As common as these factors might be in influencing a Professional Gap in evangelism we need to resist them strongly for both practical and theological reasons: Practically, we need to resist the professional gap because the frontlines of Christian witness have undeniably moved from the pulpit or Gospel crusade event to the staffroom, coffee shop, office watercooler and home dinner table. As emerging generations grow up increasingly vacuous of prior contact with local church ministries via things like Sunday schools, christenings, or youth organisations, it has become significantly more difficult for unbelievers to willingly attend evangelistic events in church contexts. Furthermore, it is my experience that the weekly in-house demands of full-time pastoral ministry mean that many church leaders spend far less time in meaningful relationships with non-Christians than the members of their congregation who mix with them every day in work, recreation and other social contexts. This raises important questions about where, and to what extent, local churches invest in evangelism, for, humanly speaking, it seems more likely that sustained efforts in training congregations to do effective evangelism outside the church could prove much more sustainable and even fruitful than sporadic approaches at getting people to encounter a specialist inside the church.

The second, theological reason why we ought to resist the tendency towards a professional gap in evangelism is simply because the notion that Christian evangelism is best left to the experts is one that is completely alien to the New Testament. Jesus’ Great Commission that his followers go into society and make disciples by sharing the message of the risen Christ was a mandate issued to every Christian believer  indiscriminately – including even those who still wrestled with doubts about certain elements of their faith (cf. Matt.28:16-20). Moreover, when the Apostle Peter urged the believers of Anatolian Peninsula to “…always be prepared to give to anyone who asks you a reason for the hope within you…” (1 Peter 3:15) as they lived out their faith in first-century society, he was not talking about public speaking from a platform and certainly did not have in mind that this endeavour would be the exclusive task of a small group of highly intellectual specialists known as the “Christian apologist”. It was a command given to every church member! Let us be clear: Absolutely nowhere in the New Testament is the practice of apologetics presented as some kind of spiritual gift, designated to some and not to others. Nor is there any distinct spiritual office of “the apologist”. Christian apologetics is simply what is happening when believers engage with others about their faith, exploring the questions that naturally arise from unbelievers and seekers, and offering persuasive bases for why Jesus’ claims and teachings can be trusted. It is to be a practice as universal and inherent to Christian experience as prayer or partaking in Communion. That is not to say that there is not often a vast disparity of confidence or proficiency in evangelism among believers, often due to things like personality type or levels of training and experience. After all, the New Testament does speak of the gift of evangelism and office of the Evangelist. However, it is simply to make the crucial point that simply because there are often disparities of ability in this area – disparities which may indeed make us feel like feeble amateurs when juxtaposed with those Premier League “professionals” – this does not mean that the Lord does not want us to be active in sharing our Christian hope with others and rather delegate the responsibility to others, no matter how competent. God has more purpose to our being involved in evangelism than simply how “successful” we can be in leading others to Christ. And just because there may be other individuals who are evidently and strategically gifted by the Lord as evangelists does not mean that we are not all as believers to be involved in what Paul described to Timothy as “[doing] the work of an evangelist” (2 Timothy 2:5). Each of us, no matter what our individual ability at any given moment in our Christian walk, need to be meaningfully engaged in communicating our hope in Christ in accordance with our own personalities, capacities and spheres of influence. And the mandate that Jesus has given each of us to be an active participant in this element of Christian life is not contingent upon the status of our individual confidence or proficiency in doing so, but rather upon the fact Jesus has commanded us.

So before we find ourselves falling for the professional gap again, let me conclude by offering four brief pieces of advice that I hope will encourage you to find your own place in God’s mission and not delegate it to the apparent “experts”.

  1. Remember that God intimately knows and takes seriously your individual personality, as well as your present levels of ability and experience in evangelism, and will not expect you to do operate beyond them. This is not to suggest that we shouldn’t be willing stretch ourselves and even take risks evangelistically at times, nor that the Lord has not promised to supernaturally help us in what to say in specific contexts where we are dragged before authorities without warning to give account for our faith (cf. Luke 12:11-12). It is, however, to reassure us that, like Jesus presented in the Parable of the Talents (Matt. 25:14-30), God entrusts each of us with real responsibility in his mission field, we do not all have the same responsibility; and the responsibility we do have before the Lord in this area is in direct proportion to the level of capacity that God has given to us. Of course, when we see or hear an exceptionally gifted evangelistic communicator operating in the sweet-spot of their calling and offering brilliant answers to terrifying questions, it is easy to assume that, if that’s what meaningful evangelism demands, we could never do it. What we need to realise is that this is only one particular aspect of what evangelism could look like, or should look like for that What we need to remember is that evangelism is far from a monolithic enterprise; there are as many different types of effective evangelism as there are personalities involved in sharing their faith. Some people are great public speakers who thrive on a platform communicating to hundreds yet aren’t great at 1-2-1 evangelism. For others, the thought of speaking on a stage terrifies them but they are brilliant at conversational evangelism among friends and colleagues. The challenge for us as individuals before the Lord is to discover and be content with where we fit best in participating in God’s mission, and the only way to discover this is to start trying things and trust that the Lord will faithfully show us were our strengths and weakness lie as we give evangelism a go.
  2. Remember that effective evangelism is a dynamic process and simply because we might lack confidence or levels of ability or knowledge today, does not mean that the Lord wants us to stay there and won’t help us develop. When 1 Peter talks about “always being prepared to give an answer..,” the word Peter uses for “being prepared” is a word derived from the idea of physical fitness. In other words, like physical fitness, our preparedness for evangelism is not a static process, but one that dynamically responds to if and how much we are exercising our evangelistic muscles. Today, we might seem like a million miles away from the abilities of other evangelists. But that is not to say that, with a little personal study or practice we cannot make significant strides in our ability. Of course, we may still never get to the level of others but that may not be what the Lord expects of us, so why expect it of ourselves. Instead, like David in confronting Goliath (1 Sam. 17), we need to avoid the expectation of wearing another’s armour and step into the evangelistic areas as ourselves, with the gifts and abilities the Lord has given – and is continuing to develop – in us.
  3. Start with small steps and do your evangelism with others. One of the most helpful ways to participate in evangelism – especially if you haven’t done it for a while and are a bit rusty – is to do it with others who are more experienced. Sharing your faith alongside others will help mitigate natural anxieties, help us avoid feeling that the responsibility to be successful is all on us, and provide the timely encouragement and support we all need in the crucibles of sharing our faith. It will also allow us an objective pair of eyes that can help us discover where are strengths and weakness in evangelism presently lie. Start with manageable steps so that you don’t get overwhelmed or discouraged. Remember that the most common apologetic that we see the Apostle Paul use when given an opportunity to explain his faith in the New Testament is his personal testimony. So make sure that you can explain your story in a simple and brief way that you can organically weave into conversation with others. Try to learn to explain your testimony in terms of why you are convinced that Christianity is true, rather than simply cataloguing the historic details of how you became a Christian.
  4. Finally, remember that, no matter what our familiarity with or abilities in evangelism, there is ultimately only one expert in Christian witness to the world, namely, the Holy Spirit. Even the great apostles were told not to begin the task of evangelising the world until the Holy Spirit with them, supernaturally empowering them with the only means available to truly transform human hearts (cf. Luke 24:49; Acts 1:8). Therefore, no matter how gifted, knowledgeable or experienced we might appear to be, all of us are only ever going to be mere apprentices or junior counsel to the chief advocate and witness that God has given to “convict the world concerning sin and righteousness and judgment” (Jn. 16:8). What an incredible assurance then that, as we obey Christ and take up the mandate of sharing our faith with others, God has not left us alone the task, but has given all of us – regardless of our ability – the True Professional evangelist, whose primary job description is to stand alongside us, feeble as we will surely be even in our best moments, and boldly bear witness to Christ in the world, endowed with supernatural power that only can change even the hardest human heart.

How to Share Your Faith Effectively – Gareth at Abbotts Cross

Gareth Black had a great night with the youth fellowship at Abbotts Cross Congregational Church in Newtonabbey. It was something of a homecoming for Gareth too as he grew up at Abbotts Cross, became a Christian through the church and was a member of the youth fellowship too. “I have lots of fond memories and affinity with so many of the people there – and it was great to connect with old friends again”, Gareth said.

The other thing that made the evening significant for Gareth was that this was one of the first live events he did as the churches emerged from the last pandemic lock-down. 25 people met in the church’s sports hall and despite the fact that masks were on, and mingling, interaction and singing weren’t really permitted, several of the young people really appreciated being able to meet again in person. Some of them hadn’t really engaged much with the Zoom programme the church had offered during the lockdown, and they were especially enthusiastic about the meeting.

The subject Gareth looked at was “How to Share Your Faith Effectively”. He looked at the way that the first Christians shared their faith; not primarily through preaching, or running ‘evangelistic events’ but through everyday conversation and living out their faith in the public square. Gareth explained that the reason that they did this so confidently and effectively is that Christianity is an evidence based faith. A lot of Christians have never looked at that, and tie their faith simply to subjective experience. in response, Gareth have them a brief introduction to some of the evidence in history, science, philosophy and morality.

1 Peter 3:15 is a classic Bible text for dealing with all of this. It says, “in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect”. Gareth encouraged the young people at Abbotts Cross to face up to the challenges in today’s culture, but not to be afraid of them. He especially encouraged them to resist the temptation to hide with a ‘privatised’ faith. A purely subjective faith, based on experience might be a private matter, he said; but challenged the young people to look at the publically available evidence for the Christian faith and to have the confidence to be a bit more ‘public’ about what they believe.

An observation that Gareth made was that a lot of Christians are prepared to give an answer for how they came to faith: their testimony. He underlined that that is good and important. However, he also pointed out that the text in 1 Peter says we are to give a reason why we believe! The importance of always speaking with “gentleness and respect” was Gareth’s next major point, because it is all too easy to put people off the message by the way we conduct ourselves.

He brought the evening to a conclusion with his “Top 4 Tips for Sharing the Gospel”. These are

  1. Praying
  2. Being in a good, healthy friendships with non-Christians
  3. Learning to ask good questions
  4. Learning to persuasively articulate why you think Christianity is true.

Afterwards Gareth said, “It was a good night! Despite the fact that regulations in place here at the time meant that there were restrictions on mixing, mingling or interaction and so it was hard to gauge what the young people were thinking – the leaders were very positive. I hope to be able to work with them again!”

3 Ways to Prepare for Objections

C. S. Lewis knew what non-Christians thought and believed because he himself had thought
and believed those very things. He countered the popular notion that morality is just “herd
instinct”—something different societies formulate differently—by highlighting examples of
universally held ethics. He unravelled the theory that New Testament stories were mere
fables by comparing them to works of fiction, a collection he knew well. He articulated and
then dismantled the common notion that Jesus was a mere man or just a very good teacher
by listing the many extreme claims he made. One by one, he articulated common obstacles
to belief even better than sceptics did; he took them seriously and carefully removed them.
We need to develop that same flow in our evangelism.

Getting ready to respond to objections may seem overwhelming. But it works well to break
the task down into smaller steps.

1) Know Your Abilities

First, it’s helpful to examine our own abilities to respond to objections. Has there been
someone in your life who has shaped your thinking? Perhaps your training for your
profession has made you a more logical thinker or a more sceptical inquirer—or more
curious to learn, or more able to see connections between things that other people only see
as separate. Or perhaps God’s call on your life involves more practical tasks than academic
ideas. Perhaps you serve people in very tangible ways.

How have your experiences shaped your compassion for people or your capacity to show
care? How have years (or decades!) of accomplishing physical tasks or fixing broken things
expanded your patience or common sense? Your job, if you have one, is not just a vehicle
for making money. Your vocation (a much better word than job) has shaped you in ways you
may not have examined or appreciated.

Based on all of this, think about what kind of discussion you’d be best placed to have. What
common objections do you feel most confident to challenge? What settings do you think you
could most easily challenge them in? Ask God to allow these God-ordained strengths of
yours to connect with God-implanted longings in your friends.

2) Know the Objectioner

Next, it is worth taking another look at the list of non-Christians you pray for. What objections
are they likely to raise? Are they questions about suffering? Exclusivity? The Bible?
Morality? Hypocrisy? Something else? Have they raised some of these objections already?
How have you handled them in the past? It’s easy to get overwhelmed by trying to tackle all
of them at once. Pick one and try to find answers online or in good apologetics books. Think
of one or two statements you can make as part of an answer. Start the conversation there
and take one step at a time.

Prepare for more of a long hike than a short stroll. What about those friends who never ask
questions about faith or God or religion? That may account for most (or all!) of the people on
your prayer list—but don’t assume there’s no drama going on inside their heads. You may be
surprised how they’ll respond if you wonder out loud with something like “You know I’m
interested in spiritual things, right? Do you ever wonder about those kinds of topics?” or “If
you don’t want to talk about this, that’s ok. But I’m curious about your spiritual beliefs. Have
you ever been interested in faith or things like that?” Invite them to air their objections by
asking what stops them from investigating faith more—or even start by wondering aloud
what they think holds people back from belief in general.

3) Know What You Don’t Know

Here’s another idea. Don’t be afraid to restart dialogues. You may feel you missed an
opportunity when someone asked you a question. Perhaps you did! But asking for a second
chance does not hurt. In fact, it could communicate to your friend that you care about them
enough to mull over their question. It might also display a kind of humility that they rarely see
in Christians.

Returning to a previously blown opportunity could sound like this: “Do you remember that
time you asked me that question about God and I didn’t know how to answer? I’ve been
thinking about it. I think it’s a really important question. Would you be up for discussing it
again? I still don’t have all the answers, but I’d love to talk to you about it.”

Honouring Objections

One final caution: I do not think this process of responding to strongly held objections is
easy. Neither did C.S. Lewis. In God in the Dock, he warned, “This is very troublesome and it
means you can say very little in half an hour, but it is essential.”

When we read through the book of Acts, we don’t get the sense that spreading the gospel
has ever been easy: Peter, Paul, and other early believers racked up an impressive catalogue
of imprisonments, beatings, and straightforward rejection. But, in addition to presenting the
most important message we could offer, honouring people’s objections can be one of the
greatest expressions of love we can extend. It also helps to remember how this rigorous
process might end:

“There is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents” (Luke
15:10). Remembering this will help us as we endeavour to keep meeting our challengers with gentleness, respect, and honour.


This article is an adapted excerpt from Mere Evangelism. In the book, Randy Newman
shares 10 insights from C.S. Lewis to help you share your faith. Available here.

PEP Talk Podcast With Michael Ots

For many people, God and faith aren’t the things they’re most interested in. But most people are interested in (and have an opinion on!) big questions about life. What are those questions? How have they changed over the years? And how can we show that a Christian worldview makes the best sense of these life questions?

With Michael Ots PEP Talk

Our Guest

Michael Ots was Minister of Evangelism at Lansdowne Baptist Church in Bournemouth for five years before becoming a travelling evangelist. He is passionate about sharing his faith through university missions in the UK and outreaches in Europe with organisations such as IFES and the European Leadership Forum. His books include “What Kind of God?”, “What Kind of Hope?”, “But Is It True?” and his latest title “Making Sense of Life”. Find them all at 10ofThose.com

About PEP Talk

The Persuasive Evangelism Podcast aims to equip listeners to share their faith more effectively in a sceptical world. Each episode, Andy Bannister (Solas) and Kristi Mair (Oak Hill College) chat to a guest who has a great story, a useful resource, or some other expertise that helps equip you to talk persuasively, winsomely, and engagingly with your friends, colleagues and neighbours about Jesus.

The Jesus Gap

One of my guilty television pleasures is watching The Apprentice.  Why ‘guilty’?  Because, to be honest, I watch it mostly to laugh at the antics of the contestants.  As the years have gone on it seems that the producers have increasingly and deliberately selected from the thousands of applicants those who will make the most entertaining television – rather than those who are best qualified.  There’s the outlandishly arrogant ones, there’s the utterly clueless ones, there’s the know-it-all’s who can’t actually do anything – and yes there are also a handful of capable people each year.  Personally, I’m most impressed by the gifted sales people, who can sell you a biro pen.  I’m in awe of their skills, because if my family livelihood depended on my salesmanship then they would be going hungry pretty quickly.

Unfortunately I think that many of us have imbibed this idea that an evangelist is a sales person for Jesus – flogging off forgiveness for past indiscretions and offering the hope of future bliss for free!  However, this can be a huge hindrance.

For a start we will be tempted to change the message to make it more appealing to people – downplaying or bypassing altogether the hard truths of sin, hell, judgement and repentance – as no salesperson wants to be stuck selling something that no one is interested in purchasing.

Even more problematically, we will start to fear that unless we are the best possible salesperson, with the perfectly wrapped gospel presentation, accompanied by the perfect music and media performances, served with the tastiest snacks and finest coffee, delivered with the best stories and the cleverest arguments, complimented with the perfect smile, suit and life – then we cannot be effective spokespersons for Christ.

What’s so wrong with such a mindset is that it assumes that the weight of responsibility for winning souls rests entirely upon our shoulders and our skills.  On this view Jesus is not in His rightful place as the Lord of salvation – rather He’s simply a vending machine or a consumable product.  However, that’s just not what the Bible teaches.

I’ll never forget attending the Evangelical Ministries Assembly in the Barbican Centre, London, several years ago.  Rico Tice (founder of Christianity Explored ministries) was on the platform teaching on evangelism.  He took us to this passage in 2 Corinthians 4:4-6

“The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers so they cannot see the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God. For we do not proclaim ourselves, but Jesus Christ as Lord, and ourselves as your servants for Jesus’ sake. For God, who said, “Let light shine out of darkness,” made His light shine in our hearts to give us the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ”

Rico then pointed out that the process of evangelism is very simple: “We preach Christ; God opens blind eyes”.  Then he got us to stand up in the auditorium.  Multiple times all 1000+ of us were instructed to bellow out: “We preach Christ” – and responded “God opens blind eyes”.

You see evangelism isn’t about us, it’s about Jesus.  We are called to be signposts that direct people travelling along to broad road off onto the narrow road leading to the city of God.  Simply signposts.  Sure you can be a neon signpost with LCD screen, lasers, fog machine, etc. – but a plain wooden one with some painted words will do the same job just as well!  We are not here to point to ourselves – but rather to point away from ourselves to the saviour.

Rather than seeing ourselves as salespeople or marketers, the Bible defines us as witnesses who invite people to take a look at the person of Jesus.  Like Andrew to Peter in John 1, we can share with people our discovery: “Come and see: We have found the Messiah” – the one in whom the greatest hopes and answers to the biggest questions of life are embodied.  Like the Samaritan Woman in John 4, we’re able to say: “Come and meet the man who told me everything I ever did” – the one who has embraced us in spite of our many frailties and failures.  Evangelist Glen Scrivener suggests that a very simple way to witness to Christ in ordinary conversation with people is to share a word of testimony: “Without Jesus I could never have got through … that cancer diagnosis, that bereavement, that miscarriage, that depression, that redundancy, that betrayal…”.  We’re not selling a product to customers, rather we’re introducing our best Friend to our friends.

Transforming Scotland – “gospel contextualisation”

This year’s Transforming Scotland events were all held on line, as they took place when lockdown restrictions were still in force. The March gathering looked specifically at the subject of ‘Gospel Contextualisation’ in contemporary Scotland.

Pete Lynas from the EA kicked proceedings off with a call for us to make sure that we are preaching the whole gospel. His observation, born out by other research is that the church has often truncated it’s message which has impoverished its witness. Gospel presentations which start with the fall and end at the cross provide a neat problem and solution; but miss our created purpose, and our eternal hope.

Andy Bathgate is a well-known figure amongst the Scottish churches. When I first met him he was with UCCF, spearheading student mission across Scotland. In more recent decades he has led the work of Scripture Union Scotland – a really significant children and youth ministry. Andy led the second session of the day – this time focussing on the needs of young people and ways of communicating the gospel to them. I was struck by his plea not to stereotype young people and take a ‘one-size-fits-all’ approach to evangelism. I have children who are teenagers or student age, and they are all very different. Andy then broke us into groups to discuss what we have observed in effective youth ministry.

Solas’s Andy Bannister was the final speaker who led us into another discussion time. Transforming Scotland had the zoom call set up so that we were all together for the main talks, but divided into breakout rooms of six for the discussions – which were illuminating and helpful. Andy’s talk on apologetics, or ‘persuasive evangelism’ examined the shift in questions from “it is true?” to “is it harmful?” that we observe in culture today – and the way that in response faithful evangelism must engage minds, hearts and imaginations; and pointing people in need to Christ.

This was an enriching and illuminating meeting of some great minds. We pray that it will be a fruitful session of equipping the churches for more effective ministry. The guests came from the Islands to the Borders, from across the denominations and from all kinds of different ministries. However they were all united by a common conviction that what people across this land need is to encounter Jesus, to believe His gospel and enjoy the blessing and forgiveness of God.

Solas Rewinds – Is Religion the Cause of Most Wars?

Solas Rewinds through the Short Answers archive to bring you Episode 34 – “Is Religion the Cause of Most Wars?” It is a common objection to the gospel but the historical data shows that it just isn’t true. So what is the cause, and what can be done about it?

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